Dating Tip: Saying What Your Really Want To Say
Date: Sunday, April 09 @ 19:01:46 PDT
Topic: Jewish Dating
Have you ever been talking to someone you are interested in dating and wished you had put your shoe in your mouth instead of "putting your foot in your mouth"? Or have you wanted to tell someone that you like them, but not known how to do it? If you have you are normal. Seriously, many people don´t always say things the way they want to say them. If you want to overcome this problem consider the following suggestions.
1) Remember you will not always say things perfectly. Plan to make a
few mistakes, but when you make a mistake don´t focus on it. If you pay
a lot of attention to it others will as well.
2) Don´t overtalk.
Most people make their biggest mistakes by saying more than they
should. Listening can be your greatest asset.
3) If you don´t
know what you want to say, take some time to evaluate what you are
really want to say. This is very important in communicating your
truest feelings. Many people say things before they process how they
really feel. Your greatest advantage in communicating may be waiting to
talk until you are clear on what you want to say. Some people find it
is helpful to write down their thoughts so they can see them on paper.
4)
If you really like someone, tell them. There is nothing wrong with being
open and honest with someone. If they are a person who is worth your
time they will either respond in a positive manner or they will
politely decline your offer. No matter what if you are open and honest
they will know how you feel.
About the Author
Yair Czitrom is the owner and webmaster of http://www.jaters.com - An experienced online dater that took his dating knowledge and web skills to help other daters/singles in today’s cyber world. He is an expert writer on ezinearticles.com and searchwarp.com
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