Do Opposites Really Attract?

Whatever is true for matter (atoms, electrons…) is not necessarily true for humans. Yes, PLUS attracts MINUS in this very physical universe. However, that is not true for the universe of human relationships. For 2 humans to fit together for a long time it is best to have similar attitudes + similar efforts + areas where both individuals complement each other.
The end result for atoms is stones, planets and star clusters. The desired result for human relationships is happiness, games, creation and experience. And this differs totally from being a stone.

To cut a long story short: Dont be fooled by this saying. Search for a partner who is similar and not opposite. Do not try a dating strategy by being as differing as possible. Dont disagree bluntly with your talking partner during a date. If you agree then show it.

You can even dress similarly. She wears jeans and T-shirts? You could wear them, too. If you want you can subtly copy her communication style: Her vocabulary, her mannerisms, her gestures and reactions. But dont overdo it.

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